最近刚刚和我很喜欢的前男友和平分手，至于理由也和题主差不多，也是因为两个人在一起太累了，对彼此来说都是消耗。
唉……可能是因为我们太年轻，没有学会怎样相爱吧？
现在我们已经平稳度过了痛苦期，和题主分享一点经验吧。
在分手之前首先要考虑清楚双方是不是真的没有信心走下去了？如果有的话，建议不要分手，否则这是一件抱憾终身的事情。想要达成这个目的，首先需要双方进行充分的交流。
在这里特别提醒：一定要是两个人在一个正式场合坐下来开诚布公地把你们所遇到的问题和想法全部说明。
如果问题解决，那更好。但倘若两个人还是坚持要分开的话，那就要进行第二步了。
第二步，双方要互相考虑清楚以后的关系定位。究竟是做朋友，还是老死不相往来？当然做出这个决定，可能需要一定的缓冲时间，这个步骤千万不要心急，要给自己也给对方留出一个空间缓冲，以图将双方的伤害降至最低。
还有最最最最最重要的一步，那就是姐妹，你一定要学会珍惜你自己，正视你的价值，不要轻易地因为一段感情的失败而否定自己。也许双方在这段感情中真的都存在一些问题，那么在分手之后，希望你们都能做出一些反思和成长。如果他没有反思和进步，我希望我们有。
Recently, I broke up with my ex boyfriend amicably for the same reason as the topic, because it is too tiring for two people to be together and it will be a drain on both of them.
Alas...... Maybe it's because we're too young to learn how to love?
Now that we've made it through the ordeal, let's share a bit of experience with the subject.
Before breaking up should consider clear both sides to go down without confidence really? If so, it is recommended not to break up, otherwise it is a regret for life. In order to achieve this goal, first of all, both sides need to have full communication.
A special note here: be sure to sit down with two people in a formal setting and open up your issues and thoughts.
If it's solved, so much the better. But if the two of you still insist on separating, then step two comes.
The second step is to consider each other's future relationship positioning. Should we be friends, or should we not see each other again? Of course, this decision may need some buffer time, this step should not be rushed, to give yourself and the other side to leave a buffer space, in order to minimize the damage to both sides.
There is the most important, the most important step, that is sisters, you must learn to cherish yourself, face up to your value, do not easily because of a relationship failure and deny yourself. Maybe you both had some issues in the relationship, and after the breakup, hopefully you can both reflect and grow. If he doesn't reflect and improve, I hope we do.
